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The Five Most Important Attributes of Love
Five Signs That Self-Sabotage Is Breaking Your Heart
Five Reasons to Call Off a Relationship
Five Things Men Don’t Want In A Dream Girl
Five Tips Every Woman Should Know
Five Tips for Creating Intimacy
Five Ways to Keep Him Interested
Five Ways to Be a Better Girlfriend


So it’s just likely somewhat less complicated earlier, in your mid 20′s say. But again few folks realize that & only in retrospect perhaps. They’re usually looking for different things, and can not come to recognize their own values, needs & desires & then try to realistically assess how to achieve or obtain them, let alone try and do this with a partner. That requires serious adult reasoning & thinking, and perhaps even sacrificing your immediate desires for a greater long term goal. And I’m sorry to say, there’s not a whole lot of men & women able to think that way in their 20′s OR 30′s for that matter.

Fundamentally it’s all about accommodating themselves to reality. There are no Princes on dashing snow white chargers waiting to pick you up and make your life all better like a Disneyland fantasy. There’s no Mr. Bigs going to dry your tears away, and recognize that tired 40+ yo version of you for the wonder gal that you always were, and know instantly that you’re exactly what he’s been missing in his life all these years. We need to be able to separate fantasy for the cold hard reality that’s outside the front door. And again, very few folks are willing or able to do this on anything like a consistent basis. Which is a problem. It’ll all be an uphill fight if you can’t or remain unable to do this.

So it’s not waiting forever for all the ‘proper/right ingredients’ to fall into place. It’s knowing when enough is just fine. It’s knowing that when you find that decent human who understands you, can tolerate your antics, and seems to want the same things you do & is perfectly loving to & for you & yours that you should not willingly throw them away searching for a ‘better fit’. That yes, bigger dick, larger breasts, taller dude, GF w/o that ‘silly’ crooked nose/smile whatever ‘imperfection’ that had heretofore prevented you from finally saying to the world, ‘OK, Enough!’ ‘I’ve suffered enough indignities, this one will do fine’.

So ultimately? It’s not often about ‘what’s wrong with you’ (although it is often enough), it’s all about the Choices you’re making. Singleness for 2 decades? Is a choice. It’s saying something to

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